why? why? why?

do you ever believe in 'blessings in disguise'? i do. but i think it's severely disguised that i couldn't see light though im reaching the end of the tunnel. does it take a lifetime of patience to be happily ever after? does it? shakespeare is a real master of love coz he once said, "the course of tru love never did run smooth". that's just so damn true! im just crippled..